I PM with people that I consider friends, and we can talk about the weather, dinner plans, sick kids, and how much I'd like to sprain my tongue on their genitals. Fluff or flirt? My most honest answer to that would be "Definately".

Sometimes I PM first, and other times I'm just responding, but I guess you could call me a PM slut. I can't help myself...you guys are great and I love talking with you!

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Though I am different from you,
We were born involved in one another.

For it was not into my ear you whispered, but into my heart. It was not my lips you kissed, but my soul.

Complete surrender should not just come at moments in which one faces overwhelming odds, but in the calm when it seems one is personally in complete control of one's life.