Floral wallpaper, four large windows with minimal window treatments (don't really care if the birds and squirrels peep us), skylight over the bed, and hardwood floors. No headboard or footboard though, because my wife can't decide what she likes. Too many choices out there. Lots of pillows, candles and a bright, airy, country feel during the day, with a summery stargazing feeling at night. It's nice to lay in bed and see the light of a full moon brighten up the whole room. I love the winter because we can see the moon so clearly through the skylight.

It's been said that a man should feel like a guest in his lady's bedroom because it's an honor to have been invited in. With us, it's more of a tranquil and comfortable feeling.

__________________
Though I am different from you,
We were born involved in one another.

For it was not into my ear you whispered, but into my heart. It was not my lips you kissed, but my soul.

Complete surrender should not just come at moments in which one faces overwhelming odds, but in the calm when it seems one is personally in complete control of one's life.