I think it's a gut instinct sort of thing. You need to find someone you both trust and are comfortable fucking in front of - which can be a pretty big ask!

As for hiring someone, heh well I'm pretty sure most Pixies here would leap at the chance! LOL! I'm sure they'd do it for a very good rate!

As for how to bring it up with her - very delicately! Maybe just jokingly suggest it, and see what her reaction is. Or just take it very slow, and gently build up to it. I've no idea!

Good luck, let us know how it goes and, hehee, feel free to share the pics/vids with us!

CasperTG

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You know, Blackadder, for me socks are like sex. Tons of it about and I never seem to get any.

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