I was a virgin until age 27. I wanted my first time to be with someone I love. Well, when it happened, I fell in love with a lady 12 years older than me, and much more experienced. Well, needless to say, I had a LOT of catching up to do, so I went on a personal mission to learn everything I could to be the best lover to her I could be. She deserves my best. Well, over 4 years later, I'm still learning. In fact, the more I learn, the more I learn that I still need to learn.

I found Pixie's as well as some other forums and found that through discussions with other people, I could really get a broad spectrum of information. The forums give me access to people I would never have access to without it. People of all age groups, levels of experience, and backgrounds.

DB, you posted something the other day that gave me encouragement and hope and made you a role model of sorts for me. I apologize for not telling you so at the time. I believe it was under the post talking about the number of lovers we've all had. My number, like yours, is one. I hope it stays that way forever. I am so madly and passionately in love. I want to be 60 and have only one lover my whole life.

I'm gaining other role models, too. There's another guy from another site that also visits this one. He isn't much older than I am, but he's been married for almost 15 years. I think that is incredible. I like to listen to everything (well, almost everything! LOL) he says. I believe if you want to be somewhere in life, you should learn from the people who are already where you want to be. I'm meeting more and more of those people on Pixie's all the time.

Pixie's is an incredible place to share a freeflowing exchange of ideas and information - and sometimes just some plain fun. What I find especially amazing about Pixie's is the fact that there are so many people here, yet I haven't read any posts from any trolls, flamers, bottom dwellers, or trouble makers. Maybe they are out there, but I haven't seen them yet. You wouldn't believe the number of these kinds of posts on other forums. It's enough to drive you mad. Maybe Pixie's isn't like that because Lilith locks them all away in her dungeon (whip makes a *cracking* sound). Anyway, it's quite refreshing.

The conversations at Pixies are more "grown up" than several other sites I visit, too. I enjoy that. I like hanging around people that know more than I know. That's how I learn new stuff.

I look forward to getting to know more of you Pixies and I'll stick around until someone kicks me out.