If you are comfortable with your choices then I say fine.Many people are influenced by their cultures and it can be a burden in modern times.May I ask a couple of questions? Are you male or female? Is there anybody in your life right now that you may be considering?Welcome to Pixies,how did you find us? You do not have to make any choices that you are uncomfortable with.I am sure when it comes time you will make the right one.Good luck and welcome.

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Sex is one of nine reasons for reincarnation.The other eight are unimportant...Henry Miller