I am pleased you have met someone new, and that you are open with each other because that is very important. It appears that you and her are extremely good together, for whatever reasons, you on the rebound? her having good sex at last? Does it really matter? Enjoy the moment.
Speaking as a woman, and I hope a compassionate and understanding one, I would be glad that you voiced your fears, and that you felt comfortable enough to share your worries, but I wouldn't want you going on and on and on about your ex. Enough is enough, go forward...love again and be happy.

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