Excellent advice! Boy oh boy we have some really smart and helpfull people at Pixies! GingerV's last statement to stay with us is the best by far! Though most of the advice here isn't from a doctor........it is teriffic advice in that it's from real life experiences and from the heart.......and not from books that teach a single solution to a multitude of people with similar problems yet subtle differences. All the different perspectives are what makes it well worth asking for the advice in the first place. What might be missed in one response, can be touched on in another. Then you can consider all the advice from each post that applies to you and your own personal situation. You'd pay a king's randsom for that kind of counseling from individual therapists!

Best of luck hun!

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