My husband is not open to the little pill, counseling, etc... Those varied subjects were approached. He is adamant that there's nothing wrong, and that "we're" just tired. No, he doesn't have diabetes. The medication is to keep his cholesterol down and help with his blood pressure and occasional bouts of depression or anxiety attacks. We've talked about his medications, his vitamins, and his other stuff. He still feels nothing is wrong, and that, maybe, I'm just not in the mood. Well, I went out shopping, today, and picked out some suggestive lingerie. I plan an attack for tomorrow morning...or maybe, even this evening. I feel I have a 50/50 chance. Last time I tried this, he kissed me, squeezed a breast, told me all about a fantasy he was having, went limp, and then spent 1/2 the night writing about a fantasy, (about me), on his computer. Why can he write it but not do it? Anyway, I'll keep trying. One sidenote: My elderly friend emailed me that he had a surprise for me. Uhm...yeah. I'm chuckling, I should feel immensely flattered...Well, we'll see what happens. Thank you for the warm welcome. I wasn't quite sure how to go about this. Wish me luck!