Have been with a certain someone for 5 months now, and have never managed to make him cum from masturbation or oral........again, I am assured it's not the technique which is lacking (and my previous experience certianly backs that up) but just that some guys find it more difficult to cum that way.

Also, I think it can sometimes have to do with control/speed: During masturbation and oral, the woman is in charge of the movement and the speed, whereas with sex, the man will quite often end up on top which will mean he's in charge of the motion......a lot of people (men and women) climax easier when they are in control of the pace, as they can get it just right for them.

Just my thoughts for you....hope it helps.

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