I didn't like to hang around with my fellow classmates when I WAS a student there, so I sure had no interest in going back afterward. I usually hung out with kids older than myself who weren't in high school any longer or who went to a school on the other side of town.

When I was a freshman in college, my first roommate in the dorm was black. We had been assigned rooms, we didn't know each other beforehand, and we became lifelong friends (and still are). I found out that rumors were spreading among many of my high school classmates that I was dating black guys (hadn't yet) based solely on the fact that I had a black roommate in college. That just verified for me even further that most of them were idiots, and then I REALLY had no interest in ever going to a reunion to see them.

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