I cannot begin to say how I feel for you on this. You are the opposite gender in my situation. I have read and read and read here at pixies and have yet to find a solution other than to keep on trying to get my wife to come around. Talk and talk, but like you I get discouraged and just dont feel like trying only to be rejected.

I hope you come up with a solution and then share it with me. Good luck.

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Love...the slowest form of suicide.