I think Steph meant 'ALONE' - y'know. Like just one person - YOU! Hehehehe....

But y'know what I think? I think that the mere fact that you factored her in just then says it all.

If you feel good and she feels good and you've been honest about your situation then just do it.

And you're right, you're ex was a part of your life for 3 years, you CAN'T just deny it ever happened. I was with someone for four years and although we split over a year ago, I still talk to my boyfriend about him. And my boyfriend realises that that's ok because he was a part of my life for a long time. I'm sure you're new lover will be equally as understanding.

As for the sex......good sex is usually born out of good communication, consideration, for each other, mutual attraction, and an emotional 'connection'. Sounds like a perfect recipe for love if you ask me.

If you're having fun and you're not hurting anyone keep doing it. In the future who knows what might happen, she might hurt you, you might hurt her, but then again you both might get run down by a bus tomorrow! You can't live your life worrying about whether someone's going to get hurt, you just need to know when to move on if someone does get hurt (and it seems like you've already learnt to do that) Don't worry. I can tell you're going to be fine.

Lou
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