*enter Lilith*~ not an expert but can sure think of 49835789235723 ways to play out BDSM! When I think of humiliation in the context of BDSM I think more along the lines of name calling, (My slut, My whore, sissyboy), expecting said persons to do tasks which are demeaning or uncomfortable,(toilet duty, wear panties, do chores while wearing a plug or even pony tail) or the sort. Those are just some very typical ones.

If a man came to me whip in hand I would stiffle a squeal of delight and hold out my hand for him to give it to me

Best way to start off is lightly, begin by telling her exactly what you want her to do and precisely how you expect it done. BDSM is probably one of the most verbal/ communicative types of sexual experiences. Begin with diologue.

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