i can understand what missy is saying, i am ion the same position and it is no easier for men. in my 20's i had lots of women after me i only had to pick, i didnt because i was involved with my girlfriend for a few years ( i thought she was the one) and after we broke uo i spent the next few years off and on with her , a real rollercoaster.

now at 35 i am not at college where you can find women by the dozen, nor do i work in a job where i meet women younger than i , they are usually much older( 40's).

i too dont like going to night clubs as i dont like dancing or the environment, and any girl i meet there would most likely be into that so i cant win there.

but how do you meet people?

i live a settled and quiet life


any idead people.

i am sorry tha i am not near missy.