Hey...

I would say you need a toy or two...try to get yourself a vibrator...preferably a nice large size one that you can experiment with sliding in up into you cunt with one hand while friggin' your clit with the other....

I find when your cunt has something to clamp down on...man, the orgasm is wayyyyy better...

I've also seen a vibrator (or maybe it's a dildo) that has a prong for simulation of your ass as well.....unfortunately I've never tried that but sounds great...

Hope that helps I bit.

Cheers, Gyz