Lilith has it right, I'm afraid. Methinks the pornos are slanted to what men think. And that is that huge dicks are better for women. Not necessarily the case in my experience.

I would add to her posting that you should grow your heart and your head. And I don't mean the lower head, either.

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Lots of people talk and few of them know, soul of a woman was created below

I can't get through to her 'cause it doesn't permit
But I'm gonna give her everything I've got to give.

I hear your sweet voice calling
out my name
As I stare from a six foot cell
And from beyond I heard the words
Deceptively Yours