Hubby and I have gone through lots of dry spells for one reason or another. After our second child was born, we didn't have sex for many months...due to health issues on my part, a move and sick kids. Recently, our oldest child was seriously injured and we went over a month just because of circumstances. Most of the time our dry spells are just due to life...long days at work, tough days with the kids, family issues and everything else life throws at you. We both understand when one of us doesn't want to have sex and we just wait patiently until we are both ready.

I think that if you truly love each other, you both can wait until you are both willing.