First anal penetration was an 'oops' with a drunken partner when I was 19.

First full anal intercourse was when I was around 29. Only reason I didn't do it before was that the man I was with previously wasn't particularly interested. The reason I did it the night I did go all the way was because I was incredibly horny and in lust and wanted to give myself to him in every way possible. I enjoyed it despite discomfort but because the relationship was all that healthy, I didn't like being that vulnerable with someone I didn't trust so after a few times, we stopped.

I introduced my current boyfriend to my arse last year, 3 years into our relationship. Previously he was dead set against anal sex but I think he did it partly to satisfy me and partly out of curiosity. He was converted and now we do it roughly once a month.

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