I wasn't going to post but...after reading this a few times I thought I would share. But first off to reiterate what Randygal and Grumbleguts have said...NO ONE deserves to be raped. There are five types of people I hate (hate is a strong word, I tend not to use if if I can) and rapists and child molesters fill two of those spots.

That being said the first woman I ever loved told me her history one night...and I learned she was brutally raped three times by three different men, all boyfriends...to say it made me angry is putting it very lightly. I am sorry that this has happened to you BamaKyttn and Grumbleguts, and for the others who polled anon...I only urge you if you have not, to seek counseling, the scars are deep and will take long to heal. I can't tell you how many nights of crying, screaming and yelling I had to comfort...it broke my heart every time, and made me wish I could find these men, drag them in a dark alley and teach them the true meaning of fear...

Sorry, I am not a violent man at all (the few who know me here know that)...but after reading these posts are leading me down memory lane. Just know that people out there are hoping one day you are able to overcome the past and be happy once again, take care.

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