Times of low sex drive are one thing but I do not think that is what you are describing. You are saying loss of attraction to your mate. Meaning you may want sex but not with them. The question is for me is what is it about them that has you feeling this way. Are you angry about the 39048752349085742389745397 other things they do that piss you off and it's carrying over into the bed room? Are you bored and need something new? Are you deep down the type of person who needs to have the cycle of attraction in your life where you consistently have a new relationship starting so that you get to experience what it feels like to have someone chasing you or wanting you? Is it just the thrill of the chase or your need to be the bait?

Is it him or is it you? In the end it does not matter. If you don't want to fuck your spouse/mate/SO it is just a symptom of a bigger issue. Especially if they are not open to a poly situation. And if they are, is your relationship really strong enough to deal with those intricacies??

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