Cremate me. No funeral, and absolutely NO roses. I hate them. Try scattering some lillies and astromerias around the house.

Feed people -- good Italian or Thai food. Lots of good wine and scotch. Ideally a good jazz/blues band, so people can talk, laugh, and dance.

Better to celebrate life, I say.

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Life is too short not to love and be loved....preferably multiple times in one night.

I think men talk to women so they can sleep with them and women sleep with men so they can talk to them. ~ Jay McInerney