Every time I've felt myself coming close to popping my cork fast, it's gotta be because I'm REALLY wired and feeling it. Because condoms take care of that sensitivity issue right away. And most times it's good enough to feel through them...but the times I've gone bareback haven't been the "instant explosion" sensations of vagina-to-penis that we boys are taught ad infinitum will happen. The first time I entered a girl I really didn't feel anything special that would make me lose my marbles, nothing like the way I felt when I masturbated myself to cum.

It's first and foremost in the mind, I feel. And your mind can dictate control over your cock. For me, if I mentally focus slightly off of my partner and the "event of fucking," I can stay hard without feeling the urge to cum. Then after a while I focus back on myself and start those internal gears going. Sometimes I might be really wired to get off and selfishly keep riding that wave of ready-to-burst energy as holding back doesn't always mean a better orgasm. But if I do that, I know that I'm capable of getting hard again within a good amount of time...and she never need worry about me rolling over to go to sleep. If you get off fast the first time and stay hard longer the second, it can only be a good thing, I reckon.

Masturbating more and finding your own personal mental and physical rhythm to climax is a real can't-miss deal if you want to condition yourself towards having better ejaculation control. And it's one of those special "practice sessions" that no one ever DISLIKES doing, either!

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