you have to make her want to come back to you. if u go after her, well, she'll know she has u and not only will she be less attracted (every woman loves the man she cant control) but if she does want to go back, she'll take her dear sweet time doin so

but this only goes so far. she's not going to beg. this is where u have to pay attentoin. she may not come out right and say it, but she will tell u when she wants back. and when she does u need to open the door w/ a romantic gesture - it doesnt have to be 12 roses - but one or two should send the message.

these are good rules to live by - but most importantly u need to pay attention to whats goin on and decide for urself whats right. u know this girl a lot better than we do - so at least keep in mind what feels right