
04-19-2007, 10:46 AM
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is not this trim anymore!
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Join Date: Apr 2003
Location: New England
Posts: 21,709
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I had a vasectomy after our third child was born. We were on the fence about having a third, and he made our mind up for us. We knew three was our limit, and as a rule...vasectomy is a less intrusive (= less risky) option, so that's what we opted for. Had Mrs. WI needed a c-section, I don't know what we would've chosen.
I've always been of the school that says "any surgery carries an inherent risk", but not ignoring a potential problem isn't always an option. Things tend not to go away.
Sorry if I'm of no help, but just cuz I don't have anything good to say doesn't mean I don't care.

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Complete surrender should not just come at moments in which one faces overwhelming odds, but in the calm when it seems one is personally in complete control of one's life.
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