Unless you are inviting me for a 3-some, I believe the only way to get "Help to explore sex with wife" is from and with her. If her reluctance is based in a fear of the unknown, you need to assure you want to 'explore' WITH her, to add experiences and pleasure for BOTH of you. We guys have a tendency to grab our ladies by the hand and want to CHARGE into our expectations, dragging them along by the heels and are surprised when they seem stunned from the bumps we LEAPED over and they just slammed their head on.

Maybe AFTER .......... you are both VERY comfortable and open with all the facets of your intimate life that you have now, the two of you can explore with a visit to an adult book store TOGETHER rather than 'planting bait' in hopes of 'trapping' her interest in other pleasures.

Lilth's suggestion of reading around this board can show that while we are happy and comfortable people with a healthy apatite for sensuality, we enjoy ALL the aspects of relationships and fun beyond only sex. Many close friendships with respect and caring have been formed among the people on this site.

Just one persons thought.

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