WW, good list. And neither you or VLM killed the thread. Thank you both for your post and keep on posting please.

dorain,
As someone said there are a ton of sites out there on both D/s and BDSM... Do a search and read a few. But please also read the sites on safety.
Have fun, stay safe, respect limits and remember this should be something you both want and enjoy.
Keep us posted on how it goes please.