I bought leather wrist cuffs and a butt plug yesterday. I used both on him later that afternoon.

We now have a 'toy box' which contains: A whip (just a little pink one), metal cuffs (we're on our 3rd pair), leather cuffs, my vibe, a butt plug, durex tingle lube, clothes pegs, bondage tape, a blindfold, a cane, candles (drip, drip, yum) some porn and a cock ring. I love all of our new toys!

I find it quite difficult to be so assertive, I admit, I'm more naturally submissive (which we've toyed with too, he's very naturally dominant).

I really enjoyed dripping candle wax on him, while he was tied and blindfolded, then rubbing ice over his skin.

I also enjoyed sitting on top of him (he's restrained) and playing with myself, inches from his face, knowing how much he loves oral, knowing he can feel my heat, but not touch me. If he touches me without permission, I'll get the clothes pegs out.

Something I didn't enjoy, nipple clamps. Neither of us can take the intensity.

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