Originally Posted by TinglingTess

That is the longest check list I have ever seen!

The best thing to do is talk about it in great detail. Find out what her fantasies are concerning being dominated. Does she want bondage, pain, fear, humiliation. Does she want you to swat her and make it sting a little or does she want big, red welts that take days to heal.

Keep safety the main focus and have a safeword. If she says the safeword, for whatever reason you stop! If you destroy trust you will never be able to really dominate her.

Go slow. Build up on your experience. What might seem like a hard limit today might soften in time. Learn to be flexible and spontaneous. There is a ton of good information on the web and in books. There is also a lot of bad. Be choosy, but be willing to learn. Mostly have fun!