I think it can be harder for women to ask for what they want in bed....unfortunately, in the early throes of a sexual relationship, we worry we'll be judged a 'slut' or a 'freak' if we have unusual tastes. I have been more experimental (and experienced) than pretty much all of my partners, and while I've never been too afraid to ask for what I want, I've always gone about it carefully, for fear of scaring the person off by my requests.

I think it's important to sound someone out gently rather than issuing a list of sexual demands, unless of course that's something both partners are into - personally I rather like the idea of being issued with a list of 'demands'!!!

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