In response to Lilith's post about filling a bdsm survey, I looked them up and found this.

The survey results are a bit difficult to read, but the survey itself offers some great ideas.

I seem to remember it was posted awhile ago and it was great then to!

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Though I am different from you,
We were born involved in one another.

For it was not into my ear you whispered, but into my heart. It was not my lips you kissed, but my soul.

Complete surrender should not just come at moments in which one faces overwhelming odds, but in the calm when it seems one is personally in complete control of one's life.