I may be waaaayyyyyyy off base here, but it seems that you've decided to remove your ex from your life, about a week ago or less.

Are you seriously thinking and expecting to find the next "love of your life" within that time span??

Come on! It might take months, or even years for that to happen. I'm not trying to rain on your parade here, but give yourself some time to just be YOU. Losing someone you care about, even IF she's bad for you, takes time.........more than a week.

If you're looking for something to make yourself feel better, and you expect it to happen within say a week, or 2 or 3, or even 6...........try PORN!

The internet has made us a very "instant gratification"-ish society. Life doesn't work that way, and you can't expect it to.

Give the "It will come" theory a try...........and just relax. A week just isn't enough. A MONTH isn't enough.

You would be doing yourself a great favor by listening to the words of advise given first by Osuche, and seconded by Flutelady.