11-22-2006, 12:53 PM
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Join Date: Apr 2003
Location: New England
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Originally Posted by Robert
I want to thank you all for your advice so far. Now to ask a little more... I have decided to not act on the "offer" at this time. However, I am debating whether or not I should even tell my wife about the possibility at all. As I said she is very reserved, most of the time, and I am concerned this revelation could hurt the friendship we have with this couple. Again, any advice would be helpful.
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Not knowing your wife or friends, I can only respond with what I would do.
I'd tell Mrs. WI. I'm not quite sure how I'd phrase it, but it would probably come out a little like this:
"Hey, I heard from (so & so) today and talk about an unusual conversation...they've decided to act on a long running fantasy and experiment with swinging, and wanted to know what we thought of that."
Followed up with something like "Obviously, I told them that it's not something that we've discussed living out, and it's unlikely to ever happen...but that I'd definately run it past you".
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