I know how you feel, I felt the same a couple of years ago I had to see my doctor about bleeding after sex. I knew I didn't have time to grow the hair back, and I also didn't know how common it was to be shaved over here, and I didn't have any friends I could ask.

So I just booked an appointment with a female doctor, and she didn't bat an eyelid, but then it wouldn't have been very professional of her if she had.

It got worse when I had to go see a gynecologist, and he was a black male doctor (first black man I've had between my thighs lol). I did feel he looked at me differently after he examined me, but I just ignored the thought, and got on with finding out what was going to be done.

The thing to remember is, they've probably seen far worse things than a shaved pussy, like female circumcision for example...

Don't worry about it, and I hope it all goes well.