To understand cheating, one first must understand attraction and that's something that is beyond most of our capabilities.

This site is full of theories and questions about what attracts us to someone else and the answer is, there is no answer. It's as complex as the biology that makes us human.

What I do believe, is that for some people, for whatever reason, being faithful is not a possibility. I think it's important that people like that recognise it in themselves and are open about it with potential partners. There is no point trying to fit a square peg in a round hole, yet many people consistently enter into monogamous agreements which they then dishonour as they do not know themselves well enough to realise that being faithful is not a viable option for them. Yes time, and 'the right person' may well change that, but why bother hurting lots of people along the line until you have found that person or reached that point in life where you are ready to settle down?

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