Not that I'm an expert, but approach them confidently (not like a cocky arsehole or sleazebag) and speak to them as if what you're doing is perfectly normal (because really, it is). Speak to them like people. If it helps, remember that she's probably a bit fucked up too, even if she's drop-dead gorgeous. Maybe even a lot fucked up. You'd be surprised. Don't take that too far or you'll develop a superiority complex, but eh...

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