Pixies has made me look at my sex life in a different way. I've always known that I approach sex with attitude, and that the experiences I'm interested in trying will require that willingness to participate with sincerity as opposed to just being there while one partner experiments.

Pixies has also offered the assurance that I'm not the only one out there that has some of the feelings I do. It's quite comforting.

Take this for example.

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Though I am different from you,
We were born involved in one another.

For it was not into my ear you whispered, but into my heart. It was not my lips you kissed, but my soul.

Complete surrender should not just come at moments in which one faces overwhelming odds, but in the calm when it seems one is personally in complete control of one's life.