She is that, Lizz, she is indeed.

I think the biggest change is that I'm probably much more accepting of my wife's feelings. I'm not sure when we first got married that I really understood that her like/desire for sex may not match mine. But then, we were both young and for each, the other was our first. Took a while for me to better appreciate her feelings and points of view. But, that was also part of the joy of learning about each other.