It is sometimes tough to pick out gifts for us guys. You might think that knowing his hobbies would make it easy, but not always true. He may collect fishing lures, but it's not just any fishing lure ... it's some particular fishing lure that has his eye. Tough to know which one.

I think for me, a nice dinner with a good glass of wine and then a long, fun-filled romp in the bed can be just about as good as it gets. Or a fun-type game, like renting a motel room, and meeting at a nearby bar like you were a hooker and he was your trick, then making a night of it. Maybe even make him "pay" for the services. The dressing up and suggestiveness would make me hard as a rock, that's for sure.

Oh, I'll tell you what my wife did once. She rented a park. No kidding. A local park did overnight renting and she took advantage. (Usually they rented to large groups ... we were the first "couple" to do that.) We had a mini-motor home and took it to the park. The gates were closed and for one night we had over 300 acres all to ourselves ...

We romped around in the nude; had snacks by the fireplace in the lodge; did some mutual photo taking; and just generally had a great fun, food and sex filled time. Won't forget that birthday, I promise you that.

Guess you just can't miss with the combinations of food and sex. Does that help at all?