I've always known that the best time to bring sex up in a conversation was when you have no intentions of having it. You don't want to run the risk of having the person you're talking to think you're bringing it up because you want to have sex because you are looking for something and not because you enjoy being intimate with them.

I guess what I was looking for with this thread was some personal feedback on how women that enjoy this kind of interaction prefer being introduced to it. And obviously because we're not all the same...the answer lies in how well we all know our mates and how free they feel about expressing their thoughts.

Sure makes for interesting and thought provoking conversations though.

Thanks all!

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