I'm so with Wyndhy on this one.....talking about things just before, can take the whole spontaneity away from it. However talking about it per se is a good idea.....maybe when you're snuggled up at night, close together in the dark, when you've no intention of having sex, or else you have just had it.

I know I would be thrilled to be given any kind of kinky request for future use. I try and catalogue the things my man particularly likes to be used again in future!

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