setting the mood can usually help.....what u do before sex can help a lot too, obviously intense foreplay and dirty talk, but more importantly romance and setting up that emotional connection through discussing your feelings, maybe having a nice dinner together, a date, etc.

Also, a great suggestion is have ur partner send you little reminders throughout the day of what is to come later or try fantasizing during the day about. The whole point is to create anticipation so that by the time it comes, u have been looking forward to it so much that you will be extra turned on.

Physiologically, masturbating more often can help get your body used to being more sexually active, but is generally more important again from that fantasizing stand point.

Lubrication problems are generally much more of a psychological issue than a physical one, and for most women, finding that intimate emotional connection is the best chance for a good physiological sexual reaction. Its really about setting ur mind up in the right spot to be able to be turned on.

Remember, the greatest sex organ in your body is your brain.

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