Why are you here at Pixies?
 

I just sent a PM to one of Pixie's most special people (of course that could be any of you) and it made me think of just what makes Pixies so special and why I spend so much time here. I thought I'd share it with you as kind of a thank you to you all and then see if you have any special reasons for being here, too.

Here I am ... 60 years old and playing around posting here at this site. Fact is, more than once it's crossed my mind that maybe I'm really too old to be here and that a lot of you younger Pixies probably wonder why an ol' geezer like me is here.

Then, one or more of you really say or do something that is very special for me. More special than you know. You say things like you enjoy my posts in the gaming threads; or that you think I'm funny; or that you like the pictures I've posted. Or, like Eliza did, she put together a few of my old pictures and posted them in a thread called "A Tribute and a Gift." She's done that of other guys here at Pixies, too (but they were all generally younger (much?) than me).

I want to tell you all, when you do those little things ... you really make a guy like me feel very, very good ... and probably have taken several years off my age in the process.

I've several times have said how special I think you all are, but probably not always why. Well, this is a lot of the reason. And, I just want to take this chance to really and truly tell each of you ... Lilith, Sharni, Sugarsprinkles, Lixy, Pantyfanatic, DM383, IAKG, Christine, Nikki and Legend [whereever you are :)], Uncle Silky, GrumbleGuts, Scarecrow ... and all the rest of you (don't meant to leave anyone out) ....

THANK YOU!

There ... I've done it. Now you can tell me why you like this place and I'll just sit back feeling younger and younger and one day, when I grow DOWN, I may even get as young as some of you! :D :D

*a happy tear in my eye*

I came to this site one day.....as an exploration of (sex) web sites....with my husband. We checked um all out.....and I came back here.....and I read, and I read, and I read......ok.......and I perved my ass off! And............I felt like I was home!

Several people (many of which you mentioned above) spoke to my heart.....not to mention my ego........but mostly to my heart, with each and every thread I posted! You were one of the first, and still the most constant and complimentary friends I've encountered here!

I've said it before db.......and I'll say it again.....loud and proud......

YOUR AGE IS A NUMBER......YOUR SEXINESS IS LIFELONG!

*big, giant, tight hugs*

*IMPLEMENTING THE OH SO EFFICIENT EDIT FEATURE* Don't you dare...EVER....think of leaving us! The cog you represent could never be replaced or repaired!

I am here cause this is where I can be me. I honestly value every person who visits. I respect most and love many. I have remained here because of the wonderful people who click that button to register everyday. I love to watch people discover themselves while they discover Pixies. This forum/community offers people a safe, non-judgemental place to explore their sexuality without fear of reproach or criticism. I am here cause there is no where else that remotely comes close to this.

I was a virgin until age 27. I wanted my first time to be with someone I love. Well, when it happened, I fell in love with a lady 12 years older than me, and much more experienced. Well, needless to say, I had a LOT of catching up to do, so I went on a personal mission to learn everything I could to be the best lover to her I could be. She deserves my best. Well, over 4 years later, I'm still learning. In fact, the more I learn, the more I learn that I still need to learn.

I found Pixie's as well as some other forums and found that through discussions with other people, I could really get a broad spectrum of information. The forums give me access to people I would never have access to without it. People of all age groups, levels of experience, and backgrounds.

DB, you posted something the other day that gave me encouragement and hope and made you a role model of sorts for me. I apologize for not telling you so at the time. I believe it was under the post talking about the number of lovers we've all had. My number, like yours, is one. I hope it stays that way forever. I am so madly and passionately in love. I want to be 60 and have only one lover my whole life.

I'm gaining other role models, too. There's another guy from another site that also visits this one. He isn't much older than I am, but he's been married for almost 15 years. I think that is incredible. I like to listen to everything (well, almost everything! LOL) he says. I believe if you want to be somewhere in life, you should learn from the people who are already where you want to be. I'm meeting more and more of those people on Pixie's all the time.

Pixie's is an incredible place to share a freeflowing exchange of ideas and information - and sometimes just some plain fun. What I find especially amazing about Pixie's is the fact that there are so many people here, yet I haven't read any posts from any trolls, flamers, bottom dwellers, or trouble makers. Maybe they are out there, but I haven't seen them yet. You wouldn't believe the number of these kinds of posts on other forums. It's enough to drive you mad. Maybe Pixie's isn't like that because Lilith locks them all away in her dungeon (whip makes a *cracking* sound). ;) Anyway, it's quite refreshing.

The conversations at Pixies are more "grown up" than several other sites I visit, too. I enjoy that. I like hanging around people that know more than I know. That's how I learn new stuff.

I look forward to getting to know more of you Pixies and I'll stick around until someone kicks me out. :)

“Generally” being the key word because I’m spot on with you.
 

DB, you and I shared more than just the ride on this solar orbiter even though we don’t often communicate privately. You’ve just stated a lot of my honest feelings about ALL the people here at Pixies and like you, this has become a real part of my life and WILL always be included with my “life experiences”.

ALL of the above posts have stated many of the various reasons Pixies has become so meaningful to me including truly learning from the “younger” members. Perhaps because of the online format, I believe we all are more receptive to the “inner person” than could be possible in normal societal constraints. This HAS taught me to be more accepting in many ways. Pixies, in it self, has become more than an adult environment to hang out at or an individual person even though I’ve become closer to some than I thought possible in such a place. For me, it’s turned into a concept ….. a philosophy if you will.

Without getting into a lot of personal matters, I have to tell you that Pixies is the only place that has been able to infiltrate into me and allow (snuck-up, made, inspired) me to “feel” again after a longer and deeper period than I even realized. While it’s a very modified version, I’m grateful in ways I can’t express here. I too can only say
THANK YOU .:)


*puts panties back over his head and returns to jesters tent:multi:.*

I'm 10 years right behind you and rapidly catching up.The good news is that we are never to old for Pixies.We're just senior members,sort of like Papa Smurf.heh heh I really enjoy it here.I like the exchange of ideas and comments and finding out what is on the minds of everyone.Ive been to other places,some don't exist anymore,others seem to have nothing of interest to say unless some one enjoys flaming others.I still visit literotica and Isadora's forum,but find Pixies to be a very comfortable site with a lot of great people.Beside,no body can argue that the Pixies Chicks are to die for.They have go to be the most delicious, delectable creatures on the planet.AGREE?

Re: Why are you here at Pixies?
 

Because of people just like you are here.:) And that's the kind of people I wanna be associated with.;) The bestest and friendliest people there are!!!:)

Oh my, the place can generate a thread like this .... THAT'S why I'm here.

Found it one day, looking for stories (really...didn't know there was anything else). Happened to see the button for chat, and figured I'd have a look. Ran into a couple of people who were playful and helpful and charming and funny as hell....and who didn't laugh at me too much when I was surprised there was more to see. Figured if half of the rest of the place was anything like them it was worth a look. It was entirely like them....full to the brim of jokes, sharing, serious when it was called for and playful at ALL times. I don't know how it became what it is, but the chemistry is magical. And I'm too damned sensible to walk away from something this special.

So you're stuck with me ;).

Where else should I be???

I found Pixie's through a friend who suggested a story here. After reading the story I just looked around some and one day clicked on the Forum button. That day I wandered into something just wonderfully different from the things I had been seeing anywhere else. I'll admit I was originally perving the pics but it didn't take long for some of you to waft gently into my mind and offer an invitation to stay. I couldn't possibly list the numbers of you who have made this a part of my every day routine but suffice it to say the family feeling and general openness is just intoxicating. Who couldn't feel at home here? I live in a really rural setting where closed minds and stereotyping is still very much alive and flourishing so being here has been good medicine. I've wandered into chat a few times too and certainly will again. Thanks for Pixie's, Thanks for this thread and the opportunity to say Thanks and Thanks to the many warm, funny, open hearted, open minded, caring, beautiful, intelligent, and charming folks who make up this community. If it's ok with you, I'll stick around awhile longer. Oh and DB, you are a hoot dude. ;-)

"Don't you dare...EVER....think of leaving us! The cog you represent could never be replaced or repaired!"

Hopefully it goes without saying this quote very much applies to many of you here. Yes Lixy even YOU. (especially in my book) :)[

((((((((((((((((((((Bear))))))))))))))))))))))

The feeling is mutual sweety! :heart:

I am honoured to be a part of pixies where i have found true friendship, can be totally myself and be accepted for all my little quirks without any negativity and have constant contact with so many decent caring and sexy people :)

I have truly loved reading each of your responses. I feel like I know each of you just that much more and that is really special. And, Big Bear, I agree with you ... a lot of our Pixies simply could not be replaced ... and you're right Lixy is certainly one that would fall into that category.

*sniff, sniff*

Ya know db.......even though you've cornered the market on Kleenex....I can still blow my nose on my shirt tail! *honk*

*hugs n a quick ole lickin*

Oops! Sorry Mrs. db! *hugs*

You just use that ol' shirt tail whenever you want. << Hugs back at ya' >>

I'm here as others are...found this site searching other sites out - first by reading the stories then one day I registered and found a world which to this day still amazes me....

A collective online family that doesn't judge or discount anyone's feelings yet are always here, helpful, supportive and friendly....

Yes you may get closer to some than others but you respect everyone....and THAT is exactly how a family should be....

thanks for the thread DB....good call....and it is nice to know you.

A friend turn me on to pixies, so I'm very new and just getting aquainted. My friend speaks highly of the site and I've not been disappointed. You all seem very close and nearly family, I only hope that I can spend enough time here to know you all as well as he seems to.

Hi lexi and welcome. Anxious to hear who was your hook up:D So he can be properly spanked ...er I mean thanked;)

Where else would I go???

I'm here because I feel at home. You are all very much my friends and family.

Cos it home, its where I found love, and I couldn't imagine for a moment not being a part of this family.

Hugs dicksbro

Someone that I consider a friend brought me here. I value his opinion and dedication to his pursuits. He's knowledgable and interesting to boot, a rare combination in the real world but seemingly plentiful here at Pixies. I think he visits more often now just to look at my av though. ha ha

Like Lilith stated, it's interesting to see people become themselves. I was especially entertained with my own transition, as were a few of you I'm sure. It's a great site with terrific people and everyone behind the scenes should get a happy spanking and a good ol' fashioned tongue lashing for their efforts because other sites ARE different.

A lot of me coming to Pixies is habit now. It's natural from me to log on to Pixies early into my surfing for the day. I like catching up on everyone's comings and goings, and keeping up on the games and general chat. It's like dropping into the general store back in the day, I suppose.

Dicksbro,

I came for the stories. I stayed because of the people; an interesting bunch. Can’t say I always agree with them – or they with me, but it is an interesting and satisfying experience.

You can find mentions of Family all over this site, and for good reason. Call it magic, chemistry, or whatever you like... there is something here. I think part of it is the rules that were set, and the mods that enforce the rules. It has a lot to do with the old timers around here as well. They set the bar in a way for the rest of us that came along and if one didn't jive with the family ideal, they didn't stick around. There is a great deal of tolerance here, but not for jerks that pop in disrespectfully and start problems. I know some of you better than others... but to those I don't talk to that much, I read your posts, you are part of my Pixies family. Thank you all for finding this site, and sticking around!

Like so many, I stumbled in here because of the stories. I had a very rough year last year, and wasn't exactly the most excited KaraokeGirl about Christmas, and then, less than two weeks later, my birthday. I actually found this place late evening on the day before my birthday...looked around a bit...and found my way into chat, where there were four other current or former Iowa residents, all at the same time. :) They made me feel very welcome and at home, so, over the next several days, I explored a bit, found the games (my downfall) and made myself a place.

Pixies has been therapy for me in a number of ways. It has brightened my days when I wasn't sure they could be eased, provided me a place to go and *not* think about things that might otherwise over take my mind and spirit, and given me that sense of home and community I know many other Pixies feel. I consider many of you my friends, some of you my confidants, and a few of you have permanent places reserved in my heart. It's unlike any other place I've ever seen, real life or otherwise.

Like quite a few of the folks who've already posted, I originally found Pixies by trawling for story sites on Google! When I eventually realised there was MORE than stories here (a whole LOT more!!), I was totally hooked within the first 3 or 4 times I visited.
Initially it was the pictures of our lovely Pixie ladies I focused on (pun DEFINITELY intended!!) and I think Skip found my first post in the Pics of Women forum a while back! :D (Been a few more since, too!) When I found Games, and then, fairly recently, Chat..... well, lets say you'll have to pry me away from here with a crowbar AND a few hefty tow-trucks!!

I LOVE talking with everybody here, be it in chat or via the multitude of threads of ALL kinds people post here. I read ALL I have time for (seems to be less of that lately! :() and contribute when/where I can.

Like everyone else, I have people here I consider good friends, at the very least...... AND I brought my own S/O here too; she loves it nearly as much as I do, I think!!

Right, SHUT UP DM!! (My biggest problem is, sometimes I don't know when to "cap my yap"!!) Just so's you all know..... I LOVE IT here, And All Of You, too! See ya around the boards guys & gals :)

DM

I don't know of many families as close as so many of us have become. It really is special. And it's funny, because depending on the subject, I know we don't always agree. But that doesn't seem to be a big deal ... we still care about each other.

What a group.

What a site Kim put together. BTW, Lilith, how is Kim? Have you talked to her?

I found this place looking for pics of naked girls,
No Not Me, Naked Girls>.............,,;-)
WOW found girls alright.
The first Lady I laid eyes on was Leigh,
Hell how could I leave?
Stopped back a few times and came to find that this site had REAL PEOPLE!
Unlike so many other sites, this sites has feelings and friends.

But on to the question.
Why are you here at Pixies?

The Girls!
I don't have a lot of time to post much, let alone read all the threads and I don't do but a game or 2 once in awhile, time is very short when I do stop in, hell some times it is 3 or more weeks, but I’ve kept coming back now for over 2 years..

Like DB said "What a site Kim put together"

Thanks KIM!!!!!

Yeah Lilith,.... Have you talked to her lately? How is everything?

I talked to Kim a week or so ago and all was well. Just busy busy.:D

Thanks for the answer on Kim. Please, the next time you talk to her ... tell her she's missed although I think you and the new owners are doing an absolutely marvelous job.

Thank you for that! << Hugs >>

A journey of self discovery brought me to pixies.. I was searching for like minded individuals who could help me expand my knowledge, not only about my own sexual being but about people in general.

I have stayed because the people I have met here continue to help me down this path. I learn more about myself each time I come here... each time another person shares a piece of themselves..

I love this place... I come here more often than I probably should.. in some ways it has become a replacement for my inability to find a partner.... I have met people here who in many ways help me narrow down what it is that I am looking for.

There are people here that deserve more than I can ever express in terms of thanks and warm fuzzies.... each of you know who you are :) Hugs..

I came just looking for fun and found ( to my amazement ) a group of warm, accepting, fun loving people. Not like any other site I have visited. The rest is history!

I got to this site by accident... started to read the forums (I never even realized that there were stories here!) and was hooked pretty much immediately.

I do not post that often here (though I managed to get sucked into the million thread for a while (~78% of my posts)) but still stick around because, from what I can tell, the people here are superb. Mind you, I do read most of what is posted in the discussion forums :)

And to DB, the thanks really goes to you... as you are one of the principal characters that makes this place what it is... fun!

I like old people DB :D Two of my most favorite people in the world are both over 60 years of age. When I'm an older man I strive to be a strong combination of both.

I'm here at pixies because I used to hang around on the main pixies site and read the stories, then one day I decided to take a peak at the strangely inviting "Pixies Place Forums" link. Well, I got to reading a few of the posts around and was hooked, most of the webforums I've posted on i've posted like mad and fallen out of them after a few weeks. but here seems to be different, I posted like mad and now i know i've dwindled, despite how much i said i was going to post (not my fault XD). but i keep comming back and mostly hanging around the chat because there be a special place in my heart (and pants in some cases) for each of ye, yar. Now I be gettin' all pirate hearted, ar. From the looks of things I may post a little less now, but I'll sure be around for a good long while in the chat and some postins, you've all sunk your teeth into me and wont seem to let go, so I aint gonna struggle. :)

Thanks for bumping this thread, Sharni. I'd almost forgotten about it ... but it's sometimes nice to refresh your memory on things that are important to you. And, Pixies was and is very important to me.

The love I feel for so very many here is genuine and I truly do think of you when life's little knocks come your way. Sometimes wish I could drop everything and be there to help when times are tough.

I've been blessed in getting to really meet a few from Pixies and I can honestly say the impressions I've had at Pixies have been right on target.

Now and then, I still think sometimes that maybe I'm too old and a bit out of place, but you all still seem to accept me. That is really appreciated. You're all really great! I've said it before ...

THANK YOU!