Well I didn't dream of diana last night but rather some random woman I have no idea who she is. I didn't even see her but kinda knew how she looked. oh man christmas eve is tough. I had dreamt of having kids with diana and decorating and giving presents to the kids. :( they need to develop a pill... lol

Holy crap, Dude. You are delusional!

You are being used and have not got the sense or the guts to see it for what it is. Forget your stupid dreams and forget this woman. She is destructive for you. Do not fuck her, do not be her friend. Friends don't do what she is doing to you. Move on and do it immediately! Don't wait or pine for this selfish gal.......I don't know how to say it more forcefully. If you can't walk away, I guess you deserve this shit. With that said,

:sad: Best of Luck.

^^^Amen...... move on already!!!

Good Luck!

Oh man, I don't know what to say. I'm not you and I am not going through it like you are right now but man...............

you've got to push yourself away from the table. Dinner's over. Say no to the dessert cart buddy.

I know a part of me really says I need to just let her go but another part of me says to stick it out. It isnt that I like the abuse or anything. I have invested so much time into her. So much of my heart and soul. She made me feel so loved. I am scared I wont ever feel it again.

Well ya wont while ya keep crapping on like this....get on with the life ffs

Ever seen those cartoons where one of the characters has an angel on one shoulder and a devil on the other? Don't listen to the part that says to stick it out.



I think I said this once before on this thread. I'll say it again:

You're in a hole. Stop digging.

Find an activity to distract you from her. If that doesn't work, find more activities. Don't leave your mind idle long enough to drift to her.

Dude, you need to cut yourself off totally from her. No calls, no letters, just walk away. You will never get over her if you have let yourself have contact with her. You say it's over but then you go back to letting her pull your strings. She's not gonna love you anymore, she broke your heart, now pick up the pieces and MOVE ON!!!!!!!!

Talking with us has not helped it seems, so go talk to a therapist.

So i was thinking and i realized this whole thing isnt my fault. It is her fault. It isnt my problem. It is her problem. I am and havent done anything wrong to her. I am a great guy and any chick would be lucky to have me. It is her problem that she doesnt realize this and appreciate it. So yea I feel alot better.

Hoofuckingray!

Glad to here it....now get out and get ya life back!

Do as Alasse and the others say.

Your other option is to rejoice and embrace the oncoming loco as it chews you to pieces emotionally.

It's your choice and as often as we advise you in the direction of sanity and personal growth, this woman has an elastic band around your emotional balls and until you cut the ties that bind, you're fucked.

Yup, what he said.

I did, too.

Today is not a very good day. I just cant stop crying about it. I loved her so much and she squashed my heart.

Yup.

You're crying because you're missing someone you are still emotionally tied to.

The only way you'll ever get over this is by strength of will and clever distraction.

The distraction is always your choice.