The other girl that was called into the meeting left before the meeting between me and the other girl. My RA kept insisting that I could "do this"...as in me being able to confront the other girl. Although I wanted nothing better than to be left alone, I think things have finally been resolved. The other girl apologized profusely...although the RA told her that I was hurt. Not exactly hurt....just pissed, lol. What craked me up was that the other girl tried to tell the RA what to do. She didn't want the RA talking to another girl that was invovled....the "omg, come here and listen" girl. Why? Because the listening girl entrusted the other girl not to say anything. AKA, the girl that started all this (not the one that "heard something") got a few people on her case....something she's not used to and exposed for what she really is. :devilish:

~*Faithfully Devilish*~
AV

I am confused.....not sure which is the "I will save you all girl" and which one is the girl you did not know about. I think I got it though.

In any case, congrats and a successful confrontation....they are scary but usually help.

I agree with alot of what has been said. Apparently "the agitator" is a journalism student or should be.

But let me ask this...Have you ever told her to mind her own business?

Or explained to her that ya'll are not children anymore and yall are in college not high school. So the games need to quit.

Or just say "Grow up!"

I know this is the easy way out but you are gonna have to channel your anger into getting your message across or the problem will just continue to grow and get worse.

You could always just ask her out of the clear blue....What is it about me that you dont like? You always seem to be so interested in everything I am doing or not doing. What ever it is we are gonna have to live together or at least co-habit for a time being.....so get over what ever it is that is bothering you. Maybe I can help.

In other words....Kill her with kindness.

just my two cents.
Natalie

I love my roomate! Man am I lucky I got stuck with her... :x:

Just Kidding AV, I am never stuck with you, I am only stuck on you... :devilish:


Thank you again everyone for your helpful advice. Calihotguy, you're wonderful thanks for all your input as well! :) This has truely been a learning and growing experience. As well as I learned to appreciate the relationship that I have between AV, we never fight or cause this crazy gossip ring. We are very open, very kind, and very fisety students that communicate with each other instead of about each other. Too bad these other girls can't be like us. Then this house would be pretty kick ass...