.....sorry if I offended your sensibilities

I thought they were funny.

After a few years of having to be gone on a regular basis, my lover and I used tapes, it was hot and private. Hi Tech today, DVD's etc. But the old fashion cassette tapes, man we kept them all, something about her voice and all the sounds, oh, she would throw in a strongly perfumed item. Man, it was sweet, not being with her sucked, but it was sweet to have what I had.

HEY lonely your old man have access to email? I am in the navy and we always seem to have email. But if that doesnt work howabout working our a sexy code with the old man via snail mail so you can talk dirty and not be hit up for it--that is what i have to do when i am on the boat--or ask the old man to call you when he gets a chance to go into town as i know they dont monitor those phones--if they did i would be in the brig right now--lol

LAW,
The only way to be absolutely safe is writing or reading erotic stories on here and doing your thing while doing so.
Cybering is good as long as hubby and wife agrees and set boundaries. My wife and I have 3 rules...don't give out full name, don't give out mailing addresses or phone numbers, and don't bring the children into it.

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That was very funny Bibi, but thats the great thing about Cyber, it could be that guy your cybering with, but in your mind...................... thats the key.
In your mind it can be who ever you want it to be... :drool: :hot: :drool:

I'm going to have to agree with FluteLady that cybering is pretty close to cheating in my opinion, and finding alternate routes is probably better for your relationship in the long run. It all depends on the relationship, of course, but...I personally wouldn't do it if I'm in a committed relationship. :)

i agree wiht flute lady. for me cybering , phone sex (with someone other than my hubby), etc. are more or less off limits. Personally i call it cheating, at least that is the way i would feel about it. But i know for a fact that i can write a mean XXX rated letter to him. Got an ex who still has one of the ones i wrote to him years ago. i mean like we were 16... many years ago. how about telling him you have an itch that refuses to be scratched. he may have an idea or know of something you guys can do to "fix" your little itch.

good luck with it.

Callie