I have taught my boys to be respectful to everyone, much like Aqua and WildIrish describe. They hold doors for everyone when out in public. Manners are manners for everyone, not to be saved to impress the opposite sex.

Now as for opening the car door...I don't want someone to come around and open it for me to get out, but as a passenger I would prefer you to use the key to unlock my door first, not get in your door and push the button. To me that's a manners things too. Whether it be riding somewhere with a girlfriend our out with my family.

Lilith High or low maintenance .................with legs like that,it don't matter ;)

Awww too sweet.... Mr. Lil said I'm low maintenance( but he knows what's good for him too) :p except when I buy a new outfit and won't leave the mall til I have the perfect shoes to match :p

*grins* can I touch your feet?

You can rubbbbbb but no tickling....;)

I like rubbing...............LOL I just found out that I have somewhat of a foot fetish....................it 44 yrs the figure this out LOL

*runs my fingers between your oil covered toes*


LOL............now look what you've done Lilith..............and I was being such a Gentleman before this" I do whatever makes her comfortable"

I guess there is such a thing as treating a Lady like a Lady.........and make her feel like a woman at the same time.

is this true?

Late into the thread as usual. . . . .

There seem to be two issues here, ego and need.

High maintenance (where you are pandering to someone's wish

to be the absolute centre of the universe, adored by all) is a crock of shit.

High maintenance where you have genuine issues which need more than normal

attention is often draining, but is a real need within some relationships.

I love low maintenance, but I fear it leads me to slackness too often.

What an honest statement! I think that being just a tad high maintenance keeps him interested. Like Mr. Lil said, " sure you would like to have a manicure and pedicure weekly, but you don't act like it and you don't care if it's not possible."


Slow Ride~ took me 35 years to realize I had sexy feet and that I like them worshipped, well maybe worshipped is a bit strong but I like attention paid to them.

Mr Lil says good things. Say hi from us please.

((((((((( Oldfart & Mrs)))))))))) It's not the same this summer not having you to look forward to!

Lilith, you could always find your way to Seattle... ;)

^^Don't think I don't know it;)^^