I do not know a thing about meeting women. I was the first guy my wife ever approached and I do not plan on having to repeat.

Let me lay this out... from somebody who used to have alot of trouble with this kind of thing.

Be confident, be cool, but do not under any circumstances, try to be something your not. Be yourself. If a girl doesnt like you she doesnt like you, keep moving, its nothing to cry about. Theres millions of fish in the see, some of them are bound to be great for you, but your never going to catch one if your too chicken to fish.

And dont worry about a girl being "out of our league", you may be a little leaguer in yankee stadium, but they respect that you have the balls to swing.

so has anyone heard of the pheromone cologne to help attract women?

I believe in personal pheromones but don't believe in the ones in the bottle. The idea is that the attraction occurs on an almost subconscious level. Plus why would you want to cover up the ones you give off. You want the person who is attracted to YOU not the shit in the bottle.

I couldn't agree more. Let friendship and love come to you. Be patient.

Yea well fun times. I don't know. This is just crazy. I am seriously loosing faith in this whole oh it will come.

Chicks don't dig bottles of shit? :confused:


How about tastefully decorated designer baskets of toenail clippings?

I may be waaaayyyyyyy off base here, but it seems that you've decided to remove your ex from your life, about a week ago or less.

Are you seriously thinking and expecting to find the next "love of your life" within that time span??

Come on! It might take months, or even years for that to happen. I'm not trying to rain on your parade here, but give yourself some time to just be YOU. Losing someone you care about, even IF she's bad for you, takes time.........more than a week.

If you're looking for something to make yourself feel better, and you expect it to happen within say a week, or 2 or 3, or even 6...........try PORN!

The internet has made us a very "instant gratification"-ish society. Life doesn't work that way, and you can't expect it to.

Give the "It will come" theory a try...........and just relax. A week just isn't enough. A MONTH isn't enough.

You would be doing yourself a great favor by listening to the words of advise given first by Osuche, and seconded by Flutelady.

In love and lust, take the "now" out of your vocabulary and settle for soon.