MM I know where you are coming from, just give it some time. Being the nice guy does work out. I was a little older then you are now before I had sex for the first time and guess what, it sucked bad. The girl was a month long summer fling. The other relationships I've had since then have lasted at best 6 months and none of them were worth having.

It sucks I know, but it can be worse. Try sitting at the wedding of a girl you were going to ask to marry. That's a real kick in the nuts, but I got over, for the most part. Don't feel like you need to rush into anything, don't sit idle but don't floor it either.

oh gee what kinda advice can I give here, hmmm wel first of all, don't give up , I know it can certainly look like a giant pain in the ass, I know when I started looking to form a relationship after breaking up with my ex way back when it seemed like a daunting task

I mean just the pure numbers of finding someone with similar interests, similar sexual compatability and someone your attracted to was just mind boggling, but it will happen eventualy, best not to worry about it so much, thats what I did and I eventually met a really great girl that I'm currently seeing

and give up the whole doing what you think they want thing, trust me you'll get sick of that real fast, if you can't be yourself then it certainly isn't going to turn into anything long term, don't worry about not having a serious relationship so far, they can be hard to come by but are certainly worth it

lol I know none of that really helps any but if I ever learn of a quick fix all solution to all lifes problems I'll be sure to market it and sell it to everyone at an immensly inflated price