It'll happen when it's supose to! Just enjoy this great sex for the time being.....

just think of it as......(sorry to gross anyone out).....no mess to clean up.....

you're not- its part of sex, imagine :) and thanks for all your support! I am enjoying it...and its awesome! He gets closer everytime- starting to get more and more pre-ejac. (not to gross out anyone also!)

btw- you know what I learned? Its NOT uncommon at all....that silly "penis quiz" on the forum had a question about it and now I am starting to be an EXPERT on "retarded ejaculation". There are tons of resources on it.

My guy is great, orgasm or not. All I want is for him to be happy- and I'm convinced he is happy, even though we aren't all the way there yet.

Dont worry about it, enjoy it is what I say. I never had this "problem" (not a problem if you ask me) until I got with my current gf, I was always one to cum quickly (like say, 10-15 minutes MAX) but with my current gf, I can go like a stallion, she cums multiple times from penetration and cunnilingus and if nothing else, I get the pleasure of seeing a woman in bliss for the first time in my life, btw I'm 26.
P.S. I used to post here under a different name, but forgot my username and my email addy has changed, good to be back tho :) Peace out.