Well Bibi that brings up an interesting question. That is why haven't any of the asians that frequent pixies made any comments? I know that I finished this thread with that big "thank you" to all posting, however prior to that, there was plenty of time and opportunity for them (asians) to come forward and put their views in. If they still want to, they can.

Well you would have to ask them why they didn't participate in your thread for I cannot answer the question for you.

As far as the thread being finished...LOL they are never finished as I am sure you noticed with all the old threads that have been bumped lately

I am slow coming to this post, no pun intended.

Sex comes as you both become comfortable and build the trust and desire that normally precede it. Give your relationship a chance to blossom without forcing sex as an issue.
Good luck.

I certainly hope so.
Thank you Denny.

Confucius say;
Many old threads, make dirty tapestry.

LMAO. Damn that's funny. :jump:

Not sure where you stand on this, Mark.
I agree your first post wasn't very good, but I got the lagist of it.

My wife and I have been together for 16 years and we were each other's first. Her and I played around a month before our first time, but it was always up to her. She too had sexual hang ups because she felt sex was a bad thing and only for procreation. I would only go as far as she let me. Yes, it was frustration, but I cared for her and was willing to wait as long as she wanted. That would be my advise...talk to her about sex and what might be reservations. My wife wanted to know that I would be there after we went all the way (Still loving each other after 16 years), wanted to know that she wasn't going to get pregnant (I had to use two condoms or there wasn't anyway we would), wanted to know it wouldn't hurt (I popped her cherry with my thumb a week earlier accidently, but when we did, it didn't hurt at all.), wanted to know that I would be gentle. Reassure her, be patient, and understand that she may say yes multiple times, but after getting into it, she may get nervous and decide not to, so you need to be willing to take some cold showers and not get upset with her if she does. A woman is stimulated mentally so you need to start there first and not in her pants.